Coping With Children Without Fathers In The Home

In a situation that a child is raised without their father it is imperative that the child be interacting with positive male role models. A girl child will learn to respect herself when growing up watching respectful male role models interact with women. A young boy will learn from example how to respect the future and present women in his life.

You want this positive male imagery to be present as early in life as possible. Can you think of any positive male role models? If not enroll your child where men are interacting and helping  children in a positive way.

• School Programs
• Church Programs
• Boys And Girls Club

Dating Tip

Take your time when dating. Bringing a date home to your children to soon can cause a bad situation. Your family has to be secure and healed before moving on, just like you. Moving too fast can cause your child to suffer a lose should the relationship not work out.

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Single Mothers Stop Looking For Love

There have been so many divorces that our children are growing up thinking fidelity is a myth. But the horrible thing is all the wonderful single mothers and dads are looking so hard for replacements. The whole family is now broke or fixed in some cases and have to heal from the life change.

Remember,the children are mourning from the death of their old life also. So be patient and close to family during this healing process. You got this new life and have to take time to adjust.

Allow structure and normality back in the family. Don’t run to the Internet and bars looking for the next ex. Instead lie you life to the fullest by reconnecting with your children and yourseles.

•  Go on family trips.
• Take a class.
• Join the church  choir.
• Get a gym membership.

The most attractive you is one that you loe and nurture. In your endeavors you will meet wonderful people on the same page as you. You will know that you are compatible because of the very specific places that you are meeting.

They will respect and appreciate that you make real time for your family and may want to become a part of your elite group.

Much Love!

(Dedicated to Susan!)